BASSINETS AND BABY PREP

Our life currently looks like a lot of nesting, cleaning, and prepping for baby. It's fun to think about making a literal and emotional space for this tiny little human that's going to join us so soon.

One thing to check off our list was how this baby is going to sleep for the first few months. There's a million options, but we decided on this bassinet by Babyhome.

I liked that it was lightweight, easily portable for use next to our bed or elsewhere, and this year's version is updated to include two side mesh windows for easily seeing the status of your baby without having to hover overhead.

Safety is always my first concern with the baby, but a close second is the aesthetic, and I liked that this one was beautiful, modern, understated, and available in neutral colors. It doesn't scream "baby" or look like an eyesore when set up in our bedroom.

It's great for travel since it's smaller than a traditional pack-n-play, so we will likely be taking this with us for sleeping for the few trips we have planned for this summer with baby. Another feature I like is that it can easily switch between being stationary or a rocker to help soothe the baby. The bottom legs flip to change positions.

There's side pockets for storage, and it comes with an attachable changing pad.

We are officially in the third trimester and things are starting to feel more and more real. The prepping and nesting is at an all-time high and I don't see it slowly down anytime soon. I love preparing a space for this baby and dreaming about all that is to come. So much anticipation for us in this season of life.

Share in partnership with Babyhome. Maternity jeans available here.

BREASTFEEDING ESSENTIALS

Nursing. What a foreign concept. I really have no clue how everything will go for me or the baby in this department, so I'm trying to be as prepared as possible for any scenario, and ultimately, a positive experience. I also know that sometimes it just doesn't work out for the mom or the baby for a million reasons, and I'm ok with that too. My hope is to at least attempt it, so I researched products and classes that would help give me the best shot at it. This is what I have in my arsenal to prepare me for (hopefully) the best case scenario:

1. First, beyond all the products, I wanted to be educated in what to expect. I know that there are lactation consultants at the hospital, but my personality is to lean towards being over-prepared rather than under-prepared, so I researched online classes and found Lactation Link. The founder, Lindsey, is a registered nurse who found a need for lactation education, and started a small business of teaching these video classes available online. I watched the series of three and am so glad to have them as a resource. I feel much more educated about what to expect now, and I love that the teaching model is on my time, from anywhere I want. Education is so powerful, especially with a concept that is so unknown. This was by far my most useful investment in preparing to breastfeed.

2. Breastfeeding Pillow. I choose the My Brest Friend Organic Nursing Pillow over the Boppy because it seemed better designed; it was firmer, had a buckle option in back, and the flat surface seemed smarter to me than the rounded. It also has the option to clip around in the back. I have this one and it may seem trivial, but as a designer, not having a cheesy print or a weird color was important to me.

4. Nursing Cover. I choose this one and this one by Covered Goods, a new company on the market but one that is quickly gaining popularity because it does it all: it works as a nursing cover, shopping cart cover, car seat cover, and scarf. I like that the material is stretchy and that it covers all the way around, not just a front drape. I got two because that number was recommended to me by a new mom friend who uses hers constantly.

3. Comfort Packs. I've heard that breastfeeding can be extra painful at times, so I'm being especially strategic to gather products to help with that. These by Lil'Buds are handmade cotton rounds filled with flax seed and lavender, and can be used hot or cold to help alleviate discomfort. They're reported to be helpful with engorgement, clogged ducts, and preventing mastitis, plus they're incredibly soft and the scent is heavenly.

5. Nipple Cream. I have this one by Zoe Organics and also this one by Earth Mama Angel Baby. I like that they're both lanolin-free and that there's no need to wash it off when feeding.

5. Nursing Bras and Pads. I went with Cake Maternity, I have this one, this one, and these. I like having a seamless option for the engorgement period when my size will likely be fluctuating immensely, and an underwire option for when things start to even out. I've heard that the washable nursing pads are better liked overall than the disposable ones because they're softer and less irritating, so I'm glad to have some.

6. Pump. I like the idea of having backup storage of milk for when we're out, have a babysitter, traveling, etc. We can get a pump through our insurance. I'm not sure which one I'll go with yet but likely Medela.

7. Hands Free Pumping Bra. I have this one. I've heard rave reviews about this product and how it's such a time saver.

7. Bottles. For storage when pumping. I have these glass bottles, these wide bottles, and this bottle brush from Dr. Brown's. I like that the air vent valves help with colic, gas, and spit up, and they were a familiar brand to me.

8. Storage bags. I have a giant pack of these. Needed for freezing and storing milk. More products by Lansinoh that are helpful to have: these hot and cold packs to use as a let-down aid and to reduce time spent pumping, and these gel packs.

9. Organic Milkmaid Tea by Earth Mama Angel Baby. Helpful to have in case I need something to help increase my supply. This line has a ton of other prenatal and postnatal natural care items that I'm enjoying, like the Mama to Be Tea Sampler and Natural Stretch Oil.

9. I discovered this local company, My Milkies, that makes the above products in Washington. Pictured here (far right) is the Milkies Freeze, a freezer storage system that allows you to stack each bag of frozen breast milk on top of each other, so that they're dispensed according to date and you use the oldest one first. Genius. Also pictured but hard to see is the Milk Saver, another genius little product that first introduced me to this brand when I heard it recommended on a podcast. It allows you to catch milk from one side while feeding with the other side. I didn't realize there will likely be let down like that and that all that extra milk is usually just wasted. Also pictured are the Soft Cloths, the softest washcloths made from bamboo for spit up and a million other uses. 

That's my list! I love feeling knowledgeable and prepared, and I feel both of those things having these products and resources in my back pocket. Would love to hear any of your essential items as well.

Shared in partnership with all companies linked. Product choices and opinions are my own.

NEUTRAL NURSERY DESIGN BOARD

There are a million things to prep for when having a baby, but the nursery design process has been one of my very favorites. I wanted to share a few of the things we've gotten and what my design process has looked like.

SOURCES (clockwise from top left): Saranoni blanket, The Land of Nod pouf, Fox Hollow Design Co baby animal prints, Petit Pehr bins, Babyletto Hudson Crib, Ubbi diaper pail, Burt's Bees Baby organic crib sheet and changing pad covers, Naturalmat organic crib mattress, Nursery Works Empire Rocker. 

I knew I wanted neutral colors and lots of creams, greys, and whites. I wanted everything we got to work with any gender of baby we'll have in the future, and I also wanted it to look not too "babyish" and could easily grow with our child.

One main piece of furniture that's not featured here (but there's a sneak peak on Instagram here) that fit exactly what I was looking for is a campaign style dresser in white; long enough to be a changing table but also cool enough to grow with our child for years to come. I was so thrilled to have found one on craigslist (in the brightest lime green you've ever seen in your life) and my hardworking and handy husband refinished the whole thing in white. I really love it and am so glad to have it at a fraction of the retail cost. It was our first purchase for baby, we got it soon after we found out we were expecting, and at the time it seemed too early to be investing in furniture, but now I'm so glad to have it and that the whole project is behind us as there are a million other things on our mind at the moment.

I researched high and low for a rocker and didn't find anything I loved until I stumbled on the Empire Rocker pictured above by Nursery Works. It has the dreamiest upholstered fabric, with a tall enough back for both my husband and I, and it converts into a regular chair with add-on stationary legs once you're through with using it for baby. This was my biggest investment for the nursery and the one piece of furniture that our friends strongly recommended we get something we truly loved since we will be spending a lot of time in it.

I debated on cribs for a while. Ikea has some great, simple, inexpensive ones. I ultimately just loved the design of the Hudson by Babyletto. I liked that it was well made, a middle price point as far as cribs go, plus it has toddler bed conversion capabilities. 

Our other big ticket item was the crib mattress. After a lot of research I decided on the Coco Mat by Naturalmat USA. Having an organic mattress was really important to me for a variety of reasons, and I'm so glad to have found this company. The mattresses are firm, made of the highest quality natural fibers, and stitched by hand in England. The quality is unbeatable and will last through multiple babies.

I wanted a pouf for extra seating and to make the rocker more comfortable during feedings. I liked the texture of this one by Land of Nod over a leather version.

I discovered the cutest Etsy shop called Fox Hollow Design Co with these watercolor baby animal prints. I have four and can't wait to get them in frames and hung up on the walls.

Neutral storage bins by Petit Pehr. More in this post here.

Saranoni makes the dreamiest, oversized, cozy throws for home by This one is in the nursery and will be so nice to curl up with during middle of the night feedings.

Ubbi Diaper Pail. Sleek and small; best design I've seen.

Burt's Bees Baby crib sheets and changing pad covers. I liked that these are organic and at a good price point. I have them in two colors, white and the grey and white stripe, for both the crib and the changing pad.

I really loved this entire design process. It was a dream come true for me to get to pull these pieces together and I'm thrilled with how it turned out. It's so sweet to think about making a space for a little person to live and grow that you know nothing about but love so much already. Less than 13 weeks to go.