SWIM TOOLS

We have a swimmer!

Even if you grew up in a pool and are an Olympian level swimmer, it’s so smart to have someone else wear the hat of swim teacher for your child. There’s nothing I can recommend higher in terms of learning to swim. Find a really good swim coach in your area, and do the one-on-one lessons. Beyond that, here are some things we also have in our swim bag that helped:

Goggles. A must. Find ones that fit your child and what they will tolerate wearing. Trey had another pair that broke, but our swim coach let him borrow her three year old’s pair, and they were the ones linked, and for the first time we had goggles that didn’t leak! For ages 3-8. For competitive swimming and slightly older kids her favorites are these.

Dive toys. We use these in our lessons. You can start by putting them on shallower steps and then progress to the deeper water. Great incentives for putting faces underwater. (Also sometimes available at the dollar store!)

Kickboard. Any kind works. Helps with practicing isolated kicking.

Child Sized Fins. Our swim coach recommended fins for learning proper kick technique, and when Trey joined the swim team they swam with fins every day. I bought the smallest size XXXXS (yes) which fit our 4 year old, and you can sometimes find an open box deal, I found a “used” pair for $4. Our swim coach also had these, which both my kids tried and are adjustable to fit both an 18m and 4 year old! But a bit pricier at full price.

Wetsuit. It’s January and we’re outdoors (but we can still swim!) we just needed something to stay a little warmer for longer. This one is so cheap for a wetsuit, $18, and Trey can use it during lake swims too. This is a “shorty” to give him more arms and legs range of motion. I also have this baby one that runs large and is adjustable.

Pool noodle. I didn’t buy one since they’re available at our pool, but they’re sometimes at the dollar store! Can use under a child’s armpits as extra flotation while they get more confident swimming with their whole body.

For babies:

A float suit instead of a puddle jumper. Allows for babies to learn how to use their arms.

Reusable swim diapers. I’ve only bought swim diapers once, for both kids! And they have never once pooped while swimming. Saves me money, the environment, the need to buy/pack a lot for trips, and the worry of running out.

A tinted mineral sunscreen stick is the way to go for kids’ faces, I like this one. We have this for body (sprays clear, EWG rating is 3, and at the time the cheapest of the clean sunscreens I found)

For me:

My mom is a year round, California swimmer and has all the winter swim gear for me to borrow. Since I am in the pool with Trey, I needed something to keep warm to/from. With small kids I didn’t want to bother changing before or after, so I wear this amazing swim parka over my suit. Keeps me toasty warm in the car.

HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE 2020

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It’s here! Holidays in 2020. While things are looking different this year, we’re still celebrating. In fact, judging by the amount of Christmas decor I have already crafted, things may even be a little extra this year. Finding all the little moments of good and really wanting to celebrate.

Sharing some of my favorite gifts for babies, kids, and mamas here today. I am often asked about the “best” toys for kids as a speech therapist, and the best toy for a child is really what they’re uniquely interested in, which you as the parent will know best and can vary so widely from kid to kid, even between siblings. One kid is interested in art, another loves to move. Think about what lights them up and what they’re interested in this year. Our favorites are always the simple, open-ended, non-battery ones that can be used in a variety of play contexts, and especially those that encourage pretend play. Sharing some of our tried and true, year after year favorites here.

FOR BABIES

Bannor Toys, for modern wood and personalized toys that make an heirloom style gift.

KiwiCo Panda Crate for 0-24m. Blaire got this as a gift this year and the activities and toys have been so fun. $10 off here.

Pinhole Press Photo Book. Still well loved after 4 years, and great for speech and language development.

Rainbow Stacker. There are many of these out there, we have a small wooden one. Open ended play and cute as decor.

L’ovedBaby. Their organic cotton zip rompers were all that Blaire wore her first year. 15% off here.

Bucket Swing. If you happen to have a backyard play set, or a really good tree, Blaire got one for her first birthday from a great grandparent and I thought it was a creative and unique idea for babies if your parks are closed.

FOR KIDS

Green toys. Made from recycled milk jugs, we have the ferry, firetruck, and garbage truck (for babies: the stacking cups). Great for pretend play, dishwasher and bath safe.

Pretend Play Kitchen. A classic we have loved for years.

Cookie Baking Set. We got this one at a garage sale. Wood, well designed, fine motor practice, love the velcro cutting concept, often in use in our pretend kitchen.

Dollhouse. (now sold out at that link! Similar one here) If you’ve seen my stories you’ve heard me rave about the one I found second hand for $20. It is incredibly well made and gets daily use. I am actually embarrassed to say I didn’t think of getting a dollhouse until I had a daughter, and my son actually plays with this every single day, and builds all kinds of complex pretend play schemes with it. It is beautiful and stays out in our living room, and was the best kid item we bought this year. (I also love this one too, but it’s also sold out right now. Similar: the bakery. There is some really amazing modern doll house furniture on Etsy, and less modern but still wood and super cheap at the dollar store!)

Dollhouse people. Marc the Skateboarder and the Camper set by HABA. Trey got really into camping and skateboarding this summer, so this is a fun set that is a little more boy inclusive for dollhouse pretend play.

Dolls. Even for boys! Inexpensive and racially diverse one that we don’t have but looks good here. We also love Cuddle and Kind. Next Christmas I will introduce Blaire to American Girl dolls and I can hardly wait.

Doll stroller. I found two of these on OfferUp last summer and they are another well loved toy item around here. This one is fun in that it looks like our jogging stroller, but any kind is great.

Pretend make up set. Blaire is always taking my makeup so I think she would really love this. Wood, not plastic! And small shop find.

KiwiCo. We have loved these monthly STEAM crates this year for both kids. Age specific and developmentally appropriate activities mailed to your door, and the creations often get reused in pretend play. $10 off with this link here.

Magnatiles. These make the list every year. Have heard good things about the less expensive version, Picasso Tiles.

Scooter. Another multiple year winner. The mini deluxe is our favorite for ages 2-5. (Don’t forget a helmet!) $10 off with my friends & family link here.

Trey is more into creative play than building, but LEGOS are a classic, along with Duplos for younger ages, and Plus Plus is the newer, cooler cousin (the smaller size is tiny tiny, make sure you get the big size for kids under age 4-5).

Art supplies of all kinds from your favorite local art store. Also, surprisingly IKEA has a great selection of art (and other pretend play items) at good prices.

Wobble Board. A grandparent got this for Trey for Christmas. A bridge, a slide, a balance board, I’ve seen these for years and I think he’s going to really love it.

Similar: Wobble Chair. We have a very active preschooler. We were sent this to try out, and it seems really fun and Trey likes “wobbling” on it while drawing. Sometimes I even sit on it while I work! Great for core strength and kids who need to move to focus, I wish I could gift this to every child who is now zooming for school.

Games. Our preschooler is starting to get into games and we have quite the game cabinet now. Some of our favorites: The Sneaky Snacky Squirrel, Zingo, eeBoo Picnic game, and Spot it.

Cardboard Castle. We got this for my nephews last Christmas. Great for indoor play in the winter.

Gym mat. Speaking of indoor active play. I have my eye on these. Ikea has this pretty ombré one too.

New books out:

My Favorite Color. I love this one because so many children (and adults!) have a difficult time picking a favorite color. This book acknowledges that there are many different colors, even in the same shade, and has translucent pages that highlight the subtle differences in color.

Christmas is Joy. Sweet and simple with repetitive text and cute illustrations.

Mouse’s Night Before Christmas. A darling story about a mouse wishing for a friend!

Peppa Pig and the Day of Giving Thanks. A little late, but my nephew is a big Peppa Pig fan so I looked into this one. Highlights thankfulness and the fall season, and also there’s a rainstorm, which is so applicable for us since we’re in the PNW and it rains a lot here. Come January it’s easy to become ungrateful with all the rainy weather, but this story spins it for good.

FOR MAMAS

Everlane perform leggings. I have three pairs and they are my daily uniform. The fabric is amazing.

LVX luxury & 10-free nail polish.

A virtual creative workshop like my friends Brooke and Kristi have started over at StudioLife

Coolest modern, inclusive, woman-owned puzzles. 10% off with code ALLIE.

Love hot baths at night in our freezing winter months. Rediscovered all the benefits of salt baths and now I want Epsom salts in bulk

BLK + GRN black owned, cleaned beauty from multiple brands all in one place

The leather tote I’ve carried every day for years and is ethically made! I have the black/cognac version. I wish all my purchases were as inspiring as their company slogan: “Challenging the culture of the fashion industry by creating transformative opportunities for women.” Yes, please. (AND that tote is on sale right now)

BLACK FRIDAY 2020 DEALS

I love a good sale. Here’s what I have my eye on this year and discount codes to share.

MAMA

RootedWoman. Black owned small biz! Ethically made, 10-free vegan nail polish with names like “unwavering” and “rest.” I often buy nail polish on Black Friday and this was a fun new find. 50% off, discount automatically applied at checkout. Bonus: shipping is only $2.

Olive & June. Another small biz nail discovery! Retailing surprisingly low for non-toxic, $8 and 25% off this weekend with MAGIC25. Just bought the dry drops, so excited to try. $10 off your first order of $50 with this link here.

LVX. Another luxury, eco-friendly nail polish. 40% off for Black Friday, if you can stack coupon codes or if you miss the sale, 20% off with ALLIESEIDEL.

Madewell. Up to 50% off with VERYMERRY, even sale. I bought white jeans for $32, down from $128.

Feetures are my favorite running socks. Thin, seam-free, lifetime guarantee. 20% off.

BLK + GRN. Black owned business featuring clean beauty products from multiple brands. Just discovered and can’t wait to explore.

Unwrapped Life. My favorite shampoo bars. I have greasy hair, and now I wash only once a week with The Stimulator bar, for two years now! 40% off and free shipping over $40, which is a big savings for international shipping rates from Canada.

Everlane isn’t on sale, but they are donating to Feeding America for their Black Friday campaign. The perform leggings in black have been my daily uniform this whole year.

Old Navy: 50% off everything like these flannel pjs.

West Elm: up to 50% off, extra 20% off clearance with SCORE. Cute little felt mistletoe.

Wireless Printer. With all the WFH life we needed a new one. Not on sale, but a budget option at $109 (and priced matched here to Amazon without having to support Amazon, and also free shipping).

KID

Dollhouse we love! On sale for $127, lowest price I could find, and this is a small biz toy shop.

Hanna jams. Nostalgic from my own childhood and our very favorites! $20 off here.

Fire 8 Tablet. We don’t have a TV so this is all the technology our kids get (and the only item on here from Amazon). So helpful on our long road trips to California. Usually $140, on sale for $79, up to 12 hrs battery life.

Hunter boots are on sale, variable each day of Black Friday weekend. At the time of this post, the kids’ boots are as low as $35. (Nordstrom has some Hunter Boots deals as well, although more colors and sizes at their home site.)

KwiCo. We’ve tried the 0-24months Koala Crate for Blaire and the Kiwi Crate, age 5-8, for Trey and have been impressed with them both. Subscription-based, educational, and engaging. $10 off with this link here.

L’ovedBaby carries my favorite organic cotton zippered sleeper/romper. Blaire wore this basically every day and every night for her first year. Up to 40% off organic cotton basics, and an extra 15% if you can stack coupons or if you miss the sale with this link here.

Related: holiday gift guide coming soon!

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